So many people ask me, “Darius, when am I going to have a transformation and awakening?”

My response is typically, “How do you know you haven’t already been awakening?”

Back in 2011 we conducted one of the largest awakening/transformation experiments on the planet.  We surveyed thousands and thousands of people during the course of 4.5 months of daily consciousness work and intention activities.  We found that people awaken and transform consciously in STAGES, rather than all at once.

The best way to describe transformation is similar to that of the petals of a flower opening.  At first its bit-by-bit then a big blossoming occurs.

Here are 10 signs I’ve found that happen as I am transforming.  You can check yourself against these but remember there is no right or wrong here… but just a different journey for everyone:

  1. You find yourself listening less to what people say and more to the feeling or intention behind their words or actions
  2. You may get distracted when walking outside (even during a busy day) around nature just look at flowers, birds or the sky
  3. You find yourself less interested in gossip, pettiness or the judgment of others
  4. You seem more DRAINED by ‘us versus them’ arguments, energies or consciousness (be it politics, sports, nationalism, racial divides, etc).
  5. You value all life as sacred and may find yourself taking small bugs outside to live and perform their purpose (rather than squashing them).
  6. You begin to look back on your own life memories are only opinions of your experience versus a concrete reality. You realize now that your entire life experience can be different based on the consciousness you hold
  7. You are less interested in asking yourself, “What if” questions – like what if this person never left me? or “What if I had a better childhood?”
  8. You don’t mind quiet time or alone time and shut off the T.V., social media, more often recently
  9. Rather than competing or wanting ill will for another you hope we all make it and all are happy because in reality we all are connected.
  10. You need less attention in crowds, public situations or around others.  Rather you are content to watch, assistant and help others to see their own truth and beauty.

Again, just remember this not an all-inclusive list and everyone is different.  You may experience none these, one of these or all of these.  You also may want to check back with this list in a week or a month and see how things are shifting.

I believe your heart just by reading this is opening up to another level of love, expansion and oneness.  So rejoice in the fact that you are transforming now.

Trust your inner wisdom.

Let’s ground this knowledge in your body:  Take a deep breath in and put your hands on your heart. Just allow everything to quiet down and rest. And just repeat after me: stillness, stillness, stillness. We ask Source to come in right now and to give us the guidance today during this session, during this time, so that we can make the decisions have the energetic healings, the transformations, the connections back to love that we desire.

We ask Source to come in and give us probing and feelings, maybe a little stronger today so that we can know that Source is there.

We ask that those helping us today — those angels and guides — come on maybe a little bit stronger and clearer today so we can discern what’s right for us now and that today be a day of transformation, of opening, and of possibility.

And I believe if you’ve uttered this, if you’ve felt a subtle shift in your heart that something big will open up today, something magical and special will come through today because you did this.